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?how to be better person day by day
Being
a better person is a process. No matter how good someone is, he can’t
be perfect overnight. So the important thing is that you grow every
day. Make growing a habit and you will see significant progress when
you look back
:Here are several things you should do to be a better person day by day
Take responsibility
!Only you can change your life. No one can do it for you.
Before anything else, you
should realize that the one who is responsible for your life is you.
Don’t blame other people or external condition for how you live your
life. No matter how bad the situation might be, it’s you who decide how
to respond to it. No matter what happens to you, it’s you who decide
how it affects you.
Choose to grow
After taking the responsibility
for your life, the next thing you should do is deciding that you want
to grow. Choose to grow rather than staying where you are. Choose to be
a better person every day
Make room for growth
How can you grow if there is no
room for it? What I mean is not physical room, of course. Instead, you
should make room for growth in your mind. Believe in yourself that you
can grow. Believe that you can make the
changes you want. Don’t limit yourself and aim to be the best that you can be
Don’t expect instant results
While you should make room for
growth, you should also have realistic expectations. If you expect too
much, you might get disappointed and discouraged. It takes time to grow
so don’t lose heart if you still couldn’t become the person you want to
be remember
The trees that are slow to grow bear the best fruit.
Extract lessons from your experiences
Extracting lessons from your
experiences is essential for your personal growth. Those who do will
outgrow those who don’t. So make every experience a learning
opportunity. Open your eyes and grab every possible lesson.
Keep a journal
Whatever lesson you learn, write it down in a journal. keeping a journal can save you a lot of time because you
don’t have to repeat the same mistakes again and again
Build positive habits
doing small things consistently
can make a big difference over time. Choose a simple activity that
helps you grow and do it every day.
For example, you may choose to read for half an hour every day. Or you may allocate time to pray or meditate
every day. The important thing is that you do it consistently
Face your fear
Your fear limits your growth. Because of that you need to identify, face, and conquer your fear. It’s not easy
to do but you have to know that Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage
Have quality input
Your input determines your output. That’s why you need to feed your mind with positive and uplifting thoughts every day. Listen to motivational audio and video programs. Read inspiring books. Read quotes by great people.
Be around positive people
The people around you have
great influence on you. They can make or break your life. you'll be
lucky to have a lot of positive people around you that encourage you to
grow. They act as a source of energy and inspiration for you
Find role models
It’s much easier to achieve
something if you have role odels that become examples for you. Instead
of having a lot of abstract ideas of what you want to be, you have
concrete examples in front of you. So find people with
positive traits you admire and let them inspire you
Find mentors
Mentors are even more important
than role models. You usually don’t have personal relationships with
your role models, but you do have personal relationships with your
mentors. A mentor is someone who can guide you through the walk of
life. Mentors can help you grow much faster because you don’t need to
repeat the mistakes they have made. No longer do you need to find the
right path yourself. No longer do you need to find truth the hard way
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